• fabrent

    When will you stop putting your faith in rabbis to unchain women? Has it ever occurred to anyone concerned about this situation that keeping married women vulnerable this way suits a purpose that does not have the best interests of women at heart?
    The handwringing over this situation has been going on for at least 30 years, but incessant agonizing over it is not — repeat– not– going to change it. The window of opportunity to fix the problem has long closed, if it was ever open at all.
    Deal with it.
    There are two choices: don’t get married under a chupah or take the risk and accept the responsibility as well as the potential consequences if the relationship ends badly.

  • fabrent

    I feel so strongly about the comment I left under the posted name ‘fabrent’ that it deserves my real name: Dorothy Lipovenko (Montreal).