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Muskovitz: Coming full circle on a fateful train ride

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Harry Chil Zborowski, right, and his great-grandson Marc Kestenberg pose for a photo at Kestenberg's wedding in Toronto on May 17. (Alix Gould Photography)

On Aug. 18, I travelled by train out of Windsor, Ont., to Toronto, for the funeral of my 99-year-old cousin Harry Chil Zborowski.

I settled into my seat for the 5:45 p.m. departure, relieved that I was going to arrive in time to pay my final respects to the most amazing man I had ever met. Then it hit me.

The instant I heard the methodical clickety-clack of wheels on rails, I had a haunting vision. In that moment, it came rushing back to me that it was a fateful decision that Harry made on a train over seven decades prior that changed the course of his life.

Having just been liberated from the camps, Harry and his fiance Bela were making their way to safety in Czechoslovakia when, despite possessing proper identification, they were arrested by Russian soldiers and forced to board a train for deportation to Siberia.

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Having lost so much to the atrocities of the Holocaust, Harry and Bela were willing to risk their lives to avoid what would certainly be another nightmare in Russia.

In her eulogy, my cousin Sylvia described how her parents jumped from that train. “First my mom into the darkness; then an hour later when the guards changed again, my dad jumped. Then they walked alone, along the isolated railway tracks calling each other’s names. It took them a full day to find each other.”

Eventually, Harry and Bela resurrected their lives in Canada, which came to include two children, Sylvia and Henry, six grandchildren, their spouses and twelve great-grandchildren. Each new addition to the family helped lift the veil of darkness that had accompanied them to their new homeland. Sadly, in 1994, at age 72, Bela succumbed to health issues associated with her debilitating rheumatoid arthritis.

I saw Harry at simchahs and his sweet and gentle eastern European accent warmed my heart when we would speak over the phone during the High Holidays and on birthdays. I’ve never met another human being who gave me so much joy just by the sound of his voice. Harry had that profound impact on everyone, whether they knew him for a lifetime, or over a brief introduction. Harry survived and thrived. He was an inspiration.

Harry Chil Zborowski, front centre, with his two kids, six grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren at his 99th birthday party.

And he spoiled us. He made us believe he would live forever. He actually drove his car to his 99th birthday party a few weeks ago. After the celebration, he suffered congestive heart failure. Weakened, he knew he was at the end of his improbable life and he closed his eyes on Aug. 17, passing peacefully on his terms, which he so richly deserved.

While I planned on writing about Harry on the train ride home, what I could never have predicted was that the passenger next to me, Maya, a young Muslim woman of Afghan decent, would offer a surreal arc to my narrative. After explaining what had brought me to Toronto, she shared her own family’s story of survival that also involved escaping the heavy hand of the Russians.

In the early 1980s, many of Maya’s family members, aided by smugglers, travelled a perilous route by horseback and foot from Kabul to Mashaad, Iran, to escape the violence and persecution of the Russian invasion. Despite providing a safe haven, Iran treated her family as second-class citizens. Like Harry and Bela, Canada would eventually provide them with a new beginning.

Maya is studying to become a social worker in London, Ont. Her life’s journey influenced her desire to “help people in despair who face barriers because of social and political injustice.” But it wasn’t until a particular course she took at the University of Western Ontario that her career path became solidified. It had a life altering effect on her, one that she said remains ingrained in her head. In an extraordinary revelation, Maya informed me that the course she had taken was about the Holocaust and the camps at Auschwitz. It seems my train ride and this story had both come full circle.


Reprinted with permission of the Detroit Jewish News. Alan Muskovitz is a writer, voice-over/acting talent, speaker, MC and an occasional guest host on the Mitch Albom Show on WJR AM 760 in Detroit. Visit his website at laughwithbigal.com and “Like” Al on Facebook.